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Op-Eds & Other Writing
Three Ways to Make a Request That Doesn’t Feel Coercive
May 22, 2024
Harvard Business Review
Don’t underestimate your influence at work
January 06, 2023
Harvard Business Review
Why do we shout when we argue? Lack of confidence (adapted from
You Have More Influence Than You Think
)
August 21, 2021
Wall Street Journal
Need a favor? Research suggests it’s best to ask in person
December 20, 2021
Harvard Business Review
Would you let the police search your phone? We are much more likely to give consent than we think
April 30, 2019
New York Times
A simple compliment can make a big difference
February 24, 2021
Harvard Business Review
The curse of off-hours email
October 02, 2021
Wall Street Journal
How to ask a colleague to mask up
August 27, 2021
Harvard Business Review
Would you lie for me? Why we underestimate our own powers of persuasion
February 09, 2014
New York Times
Three tips to avoid
WFH
burnout
April 03, 2020
Harvard Business Review
To reduce sexual misconduct, help people understand how their advances might be received
April 26, 2018
Harvard Business Review
A face-to-face request is
34
times more successful than an email
April 11, 2017
Harvard Business Review
Be intentional about how you spend your time off
December 01, 2021
Harvard Business Review
Three myths that stop people from asking for help at work
June 08, 2020
Harvard Business Review
You’re already more persuasive than you think
August 03, 2015
Harvard Business Review
How to react to an awkward interview question
September 07, 2021
Fast Company
Three things the most persuasive people do differently to get what they want
September 08, 2021
CNBC Make It
How scammers like Anna Delvey and the Tinder Swindler exploit a core feature of human nature
February 21, 2022
The Conversation
Republished by
The Independent
(
UK
)
McDonalds’s fired its
CEO
for sleeping with an employee: Research shows why even consensual office romances can be a problem
November 01, 2019
The Conversation
Republished by
Business Insider
,
MarketWatch
,
Quartz
,
Big Think
,
Chicago Tribune
,
Chicago Sun-Times
Weinstein jurors must differentiate between consent and compliance — which research shows isn’t easy
January 10, 2020
The Conversation
Republished by
Salon,
Chicago Sun-Times
No need to shout: Recognizing the influence that’s already yours (adapted from
You Have More Influence Than You Think
)
September 13, 2021
Behavioral Scientist
How Psychology Could Change the Way We Understand Consent
June 22, 2022
Behavioral Scientist
The unavoidable trap of politeness: Why is it so hard to just say
​
“
no”? (adapted from
You Have More Influence Than You Think
)
September 10, 2021
Literary Hub
Why so many people are still going out and congregating in groups despite coronavirus pandemic: A psychologist explains the difference between being selfish and egocentric
March 20, 2020
The Hill
Who will listen to you? More people than you think
September 07, 2021
Psychology Today
Fear factor: Overcoming the awkwardness of asking for help
September 19, 2021
Character Lab Tip of the Week
Republished by
Philadelphia Inquirer
,
Thrive Global
,
Psychology Today, Education Week
The
​
“
liking gap” means you make a better first impression than you think — here’s why (adapted from
You Have More Influence Than You Think
)
September 09, 2021
The Muse
Why
​
“
Just Go For It” is Bad Dating Advice
February 14, 2020
Society for Personality and Social Psychology's Character & Context Blog
10
tips for selecting courses based on things you will write on your professors’ course evaluations at the end of the semester
August 28, 2019
McSweeney's Internet Tendency